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It’s been a while since my last post but I hope it was worth waiting for!
I’ve given up on on-line dating all together in favour of more active ways of meeting men. I want to shape my own destiny. Take it in my own hands. Feel the life running through my veins.
For you, my readers, I took every opportunity to test all kind of ways of meeting men, communicating and dating, often breaking ‘the rules’, which has led to some intriguing adventures. I have used on-line dating, Gumtree, guitar lessons, classes, other bloggers, and friends’ flatmates to experiment.
Now I’m moving into another territory – breaking up with conventions of communication. I won’t simply wait for men to notice me, to approach me, to ask me out. I will (gracefully) make myself noticed, initiate conversation, make a contact to get a man I desire. I will be honest in the way I feel and will give men clear signs. Honesty can be very refreshing.
There is something about meeting people on the street that is perceived as not a ‘serious’ way of gaining the potential partner. I can’t say it was totally conscious decision to examine this approach, but I have tested it recently. More about it in the next post...
Now I’m moving into another territory – breaking up with conventions of communication. I won’t simply wait for men to notice me, to approach me, to ask me out. I will (gracefully) make myself noticed, initiate conversation, make a contact to get a man I desire. I will be honest in the way I feel and will give men clear signs. Honesty can be very refreshing.
There is something about meeting people on the street that is perceived as not a ‘serious’ way of gaining the potential partner. I can’t say it was totally conscious decision to examine this approach, but I have tested it recently. More about it in the next post...
Go out there and have fun with dating!
BbG x
