As voted positively by fellow Bloggers (or rather a Blogger/Follower) I promised to give I_like_swans123 a chance, but I had a glance at his profile again and found this:
Why should you get to know I_like_swans123?
You can tell a lot about someone by what they like and dislike in others. Well I like goodness, humour, warmth, knowing, intelligence, a wild spirit, and a naughty side. What I don’t like is ugliness ( inner), fear, anger, lack of careful thought, and no emotional intelligence.
Why me? Because I am loving, sexy, sweet, warm, intelligent and very funny. I am passionate and emotional and thrive on intimacy. I am fairly balanced but always working on myself and I'm very funny.
I can be very serious, but my general attitude to life is optimistic and positive. I love being silly for laughs but crave deep intense conversation too. I am ambitious but will always have time for the right person and a loving relationship. Oh and i'm a great kisser.
If any of this resinates with you give me a call, if not good luck in your search.
He describes his ideal match thus:
You are a whole human being, with weaknesses and strengths, undamaged but not unaffected.
You are not afraid of intimacy and open and honest conversation and you are looking for the same in me. You are willing to put hard work into the relationship and solve problems to develop friendship and love.
You are cool, outgoing and have a sense of humor. You are reflective and intellectual and open to constant challenging of your map of the world. You seek spiritual growth (of the non-religious sort) and you believe in consciousness at a higher level. You know yourself and your emotions. Allthough these abilities require some degree of self-absorbtion, I am by no means interested in egocentric people. You dont clean your car on Sundays and you love animals..
Shall we have another voting session please?
11 comments:
Ha, I was wrong. The irony is that all the things he lists himself as being - well, they're good things. But if he really was all those things, he wouldn't list them on an online dating site.
There is still a party of me that thinks a/ it'd be funny if you pursued this and b/ you are worried that you're not a 'whole human being' ;-)
This really is one of my favourite reads right now.
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With my cold and runny nose I can't call myself a whole human being today:-)
What I find hilarious is how often he mentions 'thriving on intimacy' ... clearly his previous partners were not interested in sex, or just sex with him. But what puts me off is that he says he doesn't like 'ugliness ( inner), fear, anger, lack of careful thought',which means he doesn't understand human nature and that accepting the above is to become a whole human being. I'm still willing to give it a go tho :-)
I cannot wait to read about what happens. I am going to put you in my 'recommended' section on my blog for a few weeks (I like the keep shifting it round).
oh, thanks...because I've got a feeling you are the only person who reads it!
I am going to get you more followers, you'll see. At Christmas I'm going to link to all my favourite blogs with explanations as to why they are brilliant - you will be there.
A good way to get followers is to post in the Google Coffee shop - find other people's posts that don't have many comments and leave your URL. Also, comment on other people's blogs -always leave your URL and say you're a dating blogger...they'll check you out. I'm going to tell some of my blog friends about you now.
Jesus, you are serious today. Almost grumpy:-)
Oh, I could out-grumpy you ANY day BBG...
I wish we could have a competition:-)
Take care. BBG
I just found you through the lovely Mr Fish. Have spend a very enjoyable 20 minutes reading past entries - love your blog
Kate xxx
Ah haha - I always wondered about profile like that. Do they really think people are going to read "I am by no means interested in egocentric people" and think "oh darn, I guess that's me out"?
He sounds a little too good to be true..I vote you find out and let us know!
Kitty x
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